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Ok.. Major tooth ache.. Major Wisdom tooth coming out.. can't close my mouth or talk properly without feeling agonizing pain.. but then again my friend Vik told me this story about having to remove an inch of his jaw bone and scared the creeps out of me.. I thank God it's just a wisdom tooth.. but still.. it's PAINNNN..

Anyways, I was having a conversation with the DJ bunch last night and V in aussie this morning, hoping she has settled down and all.. and now all I am thinking about is how LDR is.. for those who do not know what it means, it's Long Distance Relationship. I mean in the past it was crazy difficult when you wouldnt even be able to see the person yet wait for 3 weeks for a single mail to arrive in the post.. or wait for a random phone call from a public phone with bad reception and lagging time.. but now things have changed and with Skype, BBM, Whatsapp, Ping Chat.. ppl are able to keep in touch and communicate on a daily basis..
So how was it that back then, that even though they could Barely meet each other, the relationship would last for so long.. until one partner comes back 3 years later and they get married..
when nowadays, you hear stories of infidelities and communication difficulties leading to break ups and such..I guess in the end it all comes down to love, commitment and most importantly Trust...
It's not easy to constantly remind urself to make time for a Skype call or to accomodate for time differences, but it is a change that you have to adapt to.. something that you choose to do because of Love.. and because of the relationship.. if u care for ur partner, u would commit to it.. and if the other half is busy.. we have to understand and reschedule the call no? and you know, life goes on.. and your life as well as your partner's life has to move on whether you are together or apart.. and there are going to be other ppl walking in and out of your lives.. Trust is crucial to know that ur other half is not gonna cheat on u.. and that u trust urself to be loyal and faithful...
so complicating right?? gees...My hats off completely to those suffering under LDR..
But like i said yesterday, God has a purpose for all of us.. and everything he does is right in his plan for us.. nothing is a mistake.. whatever we go through is a paving stone to our future.. in building our character to serve our purpose in life..
so, If God brought us together in this relationship, under his Love and Blessing, I trust God and whatever his plans for us throughout this journey, is for his greater good.. and it will be indeed..
a good outcome..

Have Hope :)