note to self

you know sometimes when we get our heart broken by a person..
things really change..
people will change and we tend to be not as forgiving as we could have actually been..
but that's how a person is right, when they have been hurt?...
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but sometimes i think we just expect too much from someone..
just because we know it's right and we expect it to happen...
doesn't ensure that the person know it is right and that the person would know that it is what should happen too..
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ever got into a fight and wished things be the same as before?
i have...
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and you feel like you try and try to make things work but things just can't be the same again..
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cause if we put our energy in making things Exactly like how it was before..
we're only gonna get disappointed cause the cold hard truth is..
that things are never gonna be the same again..
the more we wish they were, the more we put our hopes up..
the more things fail.. and the less we believe again..
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so does hope really strengthen or weaken our faith we put in things?
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maybe the right kind of hope would strengthen us...
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instead of wishing things be the same..
how bout trying to make things better..
try to improve and not expect the person to be That person you wished he or she was a long time ago..
cause really.. it aint gonna happen..
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instead of changing that person to suit your liking..
or changing yourself to suit their liking..
how about changing the situation by improving yourself,
and accepting the other.
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just a thought.
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why dont you try it?
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